The title seems a little bit off. I did not want to write ctrl and esc and chase away the few readers I still have. Because my topics are not for the people who don't use ctrl esc etc. Our life is a continuous struggle to take control of our life and/or stop others from controlling it. As children, we resented how our parents controlled our lives. OK, ok, not us - boomers, not people of our generations. We would cry, whine or nag our parents, but it never crossed our tiny minds that we were being controlled. Our children and all these new generation kids- they hate being controlled by parents. And we have objurgated our control, not unwillingly. We also resent our spouses for controlling our lives. Ask any man - he says with witty humor how his wife controls every thing in his life. So says his wife. But funny thing is, we do not resent so much the when government controls us. May be we do not actually realize the fact completely. And we certainly do not worry about